The high school youth at the church I attend are often from families that have been displaced. The poor economy has resulted in foreclosures on homes and apartments they were renting. Most are making it – but just barely. Often they are doubling up with another family in a residence that is even too small for one family.
An interesting exercise we use with the youth is asking them what they believe their “gift” is – what are they particularly suited to do. Shy at first, and then more bold – several acknowledge that their gift is in the arts, including music, acting and drawing. The opportunity to speak out loud about their passion is important. The lack of permanent housing is considered a barrier to growing their gift. We work with them and encourage each to find a way to express the interest and grow it through classes, mentoring or just reading books about it. The kids are now seeing opportunities where they use to think there were none. We also work with the parent(s) to encourage their children’s dreams – in spite of the challenges in front of them and their current living situation. Watch this video produced by an urban program called Reciprocity Project.
If you have a similar program in your community, ask how you can get involved. The young person with a mentor is 80% more likely to avoid the social welfare system than the kids without one. Don’t have time for a volunteer mentoring project? Many schools have a program to encourage youth in different careers. Sign up to speak about your job and life choices. Even a brief interaction with a young adult in crisis can make a difference.
What are you doing in your community?
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